13th Birthday Poem - Teen Birthday Poems
This 13th Birthday Poem is a teen birthday poem. It's a blessing prayer for the new teenager.
Teenagers need wisdom, encouragement, prayers, and especially the support of true friends.
Wishing blessings and prayers on your life, and for what's ahead.
89. Teenage Blessings
by Paul Berchtold, March, 2011
Happy Birthday! You're now thirteen,
You've arrived at a special age,
Choices and plans, what will you be,
A doctor or nurse, a teacher or sage?
It's quite okay if you don't know,
More important it is, to live each day,
Take each challenge one step at a time,
Learn and enjoy, your work and play.
Live each moment, do all things well,
What's inside you, are things that last.
At home, at school, wherever you are,
Thanks be to God, you're growing fast,
Life goes quickly, it's a great gift,
God grant you wisdom to reach your quest,
In his sight you are most precious,
God help you do your very best.
May true friends come, they are a blessing,
Choose them wisely, this is our prayer,
Everyone fails at one time or other,
God bless your steps with friends that care.
Keep close to God, He is your help,
Ever faithful, your truest friend.
Follow his light leading to heaven
To enjoy his reward, life without end.
Happy Birthday! and many thanks,
That God has blessed you in many ways,
We pray he bless you all through the years,
And guide and guard you all your days.
Poems by Paul Berchtold
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13th Birthday Poem - A Milestone Event
Being 13 is an important milestone. In many western cultures, you are a teenager for the first time, and will last 7 years - more or less. From twelve you turn thir-teen, four-teen, fif-teen, six-teen, seven-teen, eight-teen, nine-teen, and then you're twenty.
"God willing, if you live that long", my mother used to say to us calculating kids.
In some cultures, at 13 you become a young adult.
Read the stories how a boy and a girl received great responsibilities in their teenage years.
The word "teenager" was not used until the last hundred years or so. Not long ago, many young people had to handle much greater responsibilities at a much younger age, and in many parts of the world, this is still true.
13th Birthday Poem - What's it like to be a Teenager?
It's been awhile since I was 13. So, while working on this poem and on this page, I had an opportunity to ask a teenager (14 years old) at our church, whom I never met before, "What's it like to be a teenager?"
"It's fun. It's nice being be treated like an adult. And you get privileges."
I asked, "And you also get more responsibility?"
He nodded his head yes.
13th Birthday Poem - Rite of Initiation
There is a beautiful custom among Jewish people of initiating a child into adulthood and it's responsibilities:
- Bar Mitzvah for a boy 13 years old,
- and Bat Mitzvah for girls at the age of 12.
During this ceremony, the youth reads prayers and readings for the first time. It is usually followed by a festive meal of celebration, surrounded by family, friends, and community members.
13th Birthday Poem - Growing Pains
The teenage years are special years of growing up, learning how to make good decisions, assume greater responsibilities, and handle privileges wisely.
There's no sense pretending. The teenage years can be the most challenging years of decision and growth – for everyone involved. It can be a roller coaster ride of the good, the bad, and even the ugly, from one day to the next. And at times, even from one minute to the next.
13th Birthday Poem - Stability
The teenage years can be a tug-of-war between the child and the parents, a time of growth and conflict arranged by God to develop both into a different relationship. The child matures into a young adult. The parent(s) become older, wiser, and more experienced.
There's also a danger for parents to be too lax and permissive, or too strict and rigid. Or to be too lax at one time and too strict another time.
It's bad enough that teenagers are going through changes, when in reality parents need to be showing them – especially by their good example – how to establish their lives on a strong foundation and eventually achieve better balance.
We all need stability. A home we can go to, a family to nurture us, and friends we can trust.
13th Birthday Poem - Exciting or What?
Why the tug-of-war?
Sometimes the child wants more privileges without the responsibilities. And the parents want them to take more responsibilities while granting them less privileges.
And sometimes the child wants more explanations, but the parents are too busy to give them explanations, and continue to treat them as little children.
In reality, parents need to take the time to equip their older children with the tools to help them make their own good decisions, which they will be needing to do more and more in the very near future. It is important to take a pro-active role, one thought out and planned, rather than a re-active one, which hardly ever works, but usually only aggravates the situation.
If parent's don't do their job, someone else will, and it may be the gang down the street or the bully at school or bad companions.
In almost every case of bullying, the parents deny that their child is a bully.
Parents, resolve to shoulder your responsibility with care. If you're not teaching your child, find out who is. You might be shocked. Then get busy doing the job you're supposed to do. But don't do it alone, because ...
13th Birthday Poem - We All Need Help
To do anything well, we need the help of others. Arrogance and pride always keep us from asking for the help we need. It takes humility to learn how to do things right.
Many people's lives, businesses, family, and relationships are dashed on the rocks because they kept doing it their way, instead of asking for help and guidance.
13th Birthday Poem - We All Have Problems
Let's not beat around the bush. Let's just face it, nobody's perfect and we all have problems.
Teenagers, if you have problems, get help! Don't ruin your life with secret fear, pain, hurt. Get help - from the right sources.
Too many teenagers are throwing away their potential, their gifts, their abilities, their lives by suicide. Don't let it happen to you. It's never a solution to your problems. Get help!
Parents, don't be afraid to ask for help. Get all the help, the advice, the counseling you need from older, wiser, experienced parents, teachers, pastors, book authors, and especially from God in prayer and in his holy word, so that you can do your job well and without too much frustration, desperation, and disappointment. The results will be worth it, and can be life-changing for your entire family and for future generations to come.
13th Birthday Poem - Special Graces for Parents
Special graces are needed to be the parent(s) of teenagers. Parents need to give guidance, direction, and instruction. They need to set the rules and boundaries, yet at the same time be understanding and forgiving. Often they need to admit their own mistakes and apologize, which is part of the growing-up process for all of us.
Parents need to be above all a good example, and keep open the doors of communication when their children need them.
Your job is tough enough. I pray God's blessings on your important vocation.
13th Birthday Poem - A Special Role as Teachers
Parents are the first teachers of their children.
I also admire all the other teachers who work with teenagers. It's a special calling, one in which I've been privileged to take part, for some of my years as a teacher.
Parents and teachers, we truly have a unique opportunity to help channel the enthusiasm and energy of our young people to make a difference in the world. We are the leaders training them to be the leaders of the next generation.
13th Birthday Poem - New Friendships
Eventually, and hopefully, after the teenage years, the parent-child relationship will transform into an adult-adult relationship, that can become a growing friendship.
But in the teenage years, parents normally can not be the friends of their teenagers. Besides, many teenagers don't want this, because they're looking for friends among their peers, and they want their parents to be parents.
Parents need to be parents, give guidance in the choice of friends, and pray that their son or daughter will make good choices.
In fact, when given a chance, teenagers often say they want their parents to be parents, and that they put their parents as their first source of guidance - though many won't admit this to their parents.
13th Birthday Poem - The Inevitable
Part of living is growing, there's just no way around it. At one time or another we all probably looked forward to it, and also were afraid of it.
But it happens. Time marches on. We all go through it. We might as well make the most of it.
God planned it this way, and with God's help, we can handle it. The day will come we will look back at even the most difficult times of our lives with gratitude and appreciation for the greater and better things these times bring.
The benefits outweigh the difficulty. Having a positive attitude, especially an attitude of gratitude, will make it so much easier. Especially we need God's grace. And "grace" comes from the Latin word "gratia", meaning "thanks" or "thanksgiving."
13th Birthday Poem - Looking Ahead
We all mature emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally at different rates and speeds, according to our personality, our culture, our abilities.
In my poems for 16th birthday, I discuss that the word teenager actually has been used only in the last 100 years or so.
The reality is that in historical times, and many other cultures today, around the age of 13 you are considered a young adult.
In my 21st birthday poem I discuss at length the important responsibilities and decisions to be made, how they can affect the rest of your life, and how necessary it is to have God's wisdom and blessings as we make these choices.
13th Birthday Poem - A Footnote
This poem, and page, and the one for the 16th birthday, and the 21st birthday, and 25th wedding anniversary poems, have been some of the most difficult pages to post. This 13th birthday poems has been in progress for weeks. Why so difficult?
- Could it be the importance of the message to our young people, who need every blessing and prayer to keep them safe in body and soul? Many of our young people are destroyed by alcohol, drugs, suicide, and immoral lifestyles, and don't even know it. Jesus said, "The thief has come to steal, to kill, and to destroy, but I have come that you may have life, and live it abundantly." (John 10:10)
- Could it be because the devil - who is the thief - does not want the truth to be known, because "the truth sets us free."? (John 8:32)
- Could it be the timing, the end of winter here in the northern hemisphere, which can be difficult for me health-wise, being colder and less sunshine?
- Could it be that I was struggling to remember what it was like when I was a teenager some years ago, and that maybe there are some memories that were rather painful?
- But thanks to God, I made it alive, I'm still alive years later, and there are good memories I have from that time.
Let's all pray for our young people.
Dear young person, you are, in a sense, creating your life and your destiny, especially in the teenage years. What wonderful things you can accomplish by letting God do some creative stuff right along side you.
Thank your stars, you'll be glad you did.
13th Birthday Poem - Real Blessings
As I wish you a very Happy and Blessed Birthday, I wish for you the spirit of appreciation. To always appreciate what you have, to have an "attitude of gratitude", to be thankful to God, parents, family, teachers, friends.
Because it is impossible to be grateful and miserable at the same time.
I'd love it that one day in heaven, you will hear God saying to you, Well done, my good and faithful servant. Enter into your reward. And Happy Birthday! And all the millions of angels singing a special Happy Birthday to you!
Thank your stars!
13th Birthday Poem - I was - and is - 13!
I love to admit it, I was 13 once, no, twice, um, 3 x ... actually, for at least 365 days. Each day is so special and full of life.
In some ways, I still am 13. You don't want to grow up. And other ways, you can't wait to grow up.
13th Birthday Poem - 13 is my Favorite Number
By the way, 13 is not an unlucky number. It's my favorite number. "M" is my favorite letter, the 13th in the alphabet. (My favorite color is blue, as in blue sunny sky. My second favorite color is green as in Spring, and as in good American cash. Green was my favorite color growing up and for years after.)
Many other of my favorite numbers, some related to my names, my birthday, and other special events, are multiples of 13, such as 26, 39, 52, 65, 78, 91, etc.
My perfect number is 139. The 3 digits add up 1 + 3 + 9 = 13; the first 2 digits are 13; The last 2 digits, 39 = 3 x 13; the digits are in ascending order increasing in value; it reminds me of 1 God in 3 Persons and 9 Choirs of millions of angels who are waiting to serve us when we get to heaven.
Happy 13th Birthday Poem - How Long?
Wouldn't it be nice to live to be 139 on earth?
But it's true. If you and I are headed for heaven, after
139,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000 years we will still be so alive - compared to which this world is dead and dying. Which is why nobody in heaven wants to come back, unless they're on assignment.
By the way, the number above has 13 x 3 digits, and is 139,000 decillion. (or 139 undecillion) And don't get me started putting it to the same power to the same power to the same power over and over the same 139 decillion times. And then doing that 139 decillion times, etc, etc, etc.
And even then, eternal life will just barely be beginning. And if you got lost in the numbers, don't worry, I like to number crunch. Maybe you can figure that math and science used to be my favorite subjects, both to learn and teach. I still love to day dream, I just call it thinking now. Yes, in some ways I never grew up.
Happy 13th Birthday Poem - How Much?
Wouldn't it be nice to earn that much money? But in heaven, we will have more wealth and happiness and fulfillment that all that much money could ever buy !!! Who would want money, when the streets are paved with gold? Can you imagine carrying around in your pockets road pavement?
Since my readers come from all over the globe, if I don't meet you in this life, I plan to meet you there, rolling in the wealth !!! In the meantime, let's work and pray for that happy reunion day.
Friends, family, health, wealth ... the richest, grandest, bestest food and drink ... over-the-top and from-the-inside-out joy and happiness and love. Grand tours of the universe ... anything, anywhere, anyhow we want. It'll be real good seeing you.
We'll thank our stars together.
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